Thursday, December 22, 2011

To those still waiting...

To you, the woman struggling with infertility:
I know your pain. I know how bad your heart aches. I know more than anything you want to tell your husband that he is going to be a daddy. I know you want to be the best friend, daughter, sister, granddaughter, aunt, and wife you can possibly be, but it's hard to feel your best when you feel like a failure. I understand that emptiness you have in your heart. Although you live a happy life with your sweet husband, you still have that hole in your heart that awaits the day it's filled with a blessing from God.
 
At times you forget the big picture, you forget that God trusted you with this journey. At times you feel like you're being punished, but I can reassure you that this will only make you and your husband stronger. It's ok to be weak at times. Being weak does not make you a bad person, nor a bad wife (friend-daughter-sibling, etc). Not everyone will understand what you are going through. Not everyone will know how to comfort you. Cling to your husband, to God and let them be your comfort in your time of need. && Know that God always keeps his promises!
 
Here's proof: